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Parenting Tip #2

How to Deal with a Dominant Child

Please understand that : The experiences of a child at the young age results in the development of various behavioural patterns.

”iam adventurous, iam powerful, iam demanding , what do you think motivates me ”

For them the motivation comes from : a. Winning b. Challenges c. Taking Control d. Being Right, this reflects if you take away the power from the child , you bring the worst in them instead make them responsible for the same thing or situation , For example : Theres a Party going on in your house & your kids just not listening to you.. as a Parent you can ask the D child “see your sister or brother follow you & i need your help , I know iam asking a lot but can you help me set an example for your sibling, Can you do that” , thats Gold to the childs Ears , as he/she gets the POWER. This will work as they get the responsibility & authority to create.

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Parenting tip #1 :

Secret Sharing Day: Connecting with your child.

How, When & Where

HOW : As a parent you need to be true , speak up to kids naturally , do not pretend at all , share how do you feel about a situation when it occurs, in turn they will start sharing. Allow them to share, just remember you are their ‘Role Model’ they want to become like you .If they realize while sharing as a Parent you are Honest & True they will also do the same, they will share ‘The Truth’ with you & tell what exactly they feel like.

WHEN & WHERE: Decide a day (like Tuesday or any day of the week) & a specific time (like 5:30pm) , a place (like in a cafe or at the Park) and you can name this Day as a Secret Sharing Day where you share all your secrets & they share all theirs.

Introduce Yourself (Example Post)

This is an example post, originally published as part of Blogging University. Enroll in one of our ten programs, and start your blog right.

You’re going to publish a post today. Don’t worry about how your blog looks. Don’t worry if you haven’t given it a name yet, or you’re feeling overwhelmed. Just click the “New Post” button, and tell us why you’re here.

Why do this?

  • Because it gives new readers context. What are you about? Why should they read your blog?
  • Because it will help you focus you own ideas about your blog and what you’d like to do with it.

The post can be short or long, a personal intro to your life or a bloggy mission statement, a manifesto for the future or a simple outline of your the types of things you hope to publish.

To help you get started, here are a few questions:

  • Why are you blogging publicly, rather than keeping a personal journal?
  • What topics do you think you’ll write about?
  • Who would you love to connect with via your blog?
  • If you blog successfully throughout the next year, what would you hope to have accomplished?

You’re not locked into any of this; one of the wonderful things about blogs is how they constantly evolve as we learn, grow, and interact with one another — but it’s good to know where and why you started, and articulating your goals may just give you a few other post ideas.

Can’t think how to get started? Just write the first thing that pops into your head. Anne Lamott, author of a book on writing we love, says that you need to give yourself permission to write a “crappy first draft”. Anne makes a great point — just start writing, and worry about editing it later.

When you’re ready to publish, give your post three to five tags that describe your blog’s focus — writing, photography, fiction, parenting, food, cars, movies, sports, whatever. These tags will help others who care about your topics find you in the Reader. Make sure one of the tags is “zerotohero,” so other new bloggers can find you, too.